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Nollywood actress Shan George has weighed in on the ongoing marital controversy involving media personality Frank Edoho and his estranged wife, Sandra Edoho, taking a firm stance against infidelity while addressing the role of silence and misunderstandings in relationships.
In a detailed post shared on her Facebook page, the actress stressed that emotional distance, disagreement, or “keeping malice” in marriage should never be used as an excuse for cheating. According to her, couples must learn to handle conflict with maturity rather than resorting to betrayal.
Shan George noted that periods of silence, withdrawal, or unresolved arguments are common in relationships, but what matters most is how partners respond during such moments. She warned that retaliation or seeking comfort outside marriage only deepens the damage and often leads to irreversible consequences.
She explained that resentment is not unique to marriages, pointing out that similar situations occur in workplaces, friendships, and even between parents and children. However, she maintained that emotional strain does not justify crossing moral boundaries.
According to her, infidelity remains unacceptable as long as a couple is still legally and emotionally bound in marriage, regardless of the state of their communication at any point.
The actress also advised that individuals who are unhappy in their marriages should make genuine efforts to resolve issues or exit the relationship properly, rather than engaging in extramarital affairs while still married.
Recalling a previous example from the entertainment industry, Shan George referenced singer Mr Eazi, noting that he once communicated with his wife via email during a disagreement instead of speaking directly. She said while the approach may appear unusual, it reflects how different people handle conflict in unique ways.
In her post, she wrote:
“Any man who’s joy stick rises for another man’s WIFE, has committed an unacceptable sacrilege, even if she and her man r keeping malice, or any other issues whatsoever between them, as long as d woman and her husband still reside under d same roof, it’s a No No.
“Pple keep malice wit each other everywhere, marriage, office, etc, even parents keep malice wit their children sometimes. Malice is a part of life, we r all guilty of it one time or another. I remember not too long ago when music star Mr Easy sent his wife an email, and she complained about how he’s kept her malice over d issue for days, only to be sending her e-mail discussing d same issue. He could hv talked to her directly to talk about it, but he sent e-mail.
“Not everyone enjoys rancour or confrontations, so some pple simply keep quiet for sometime, while they process. One’s Approach towards such periods is what determines a win or lose in that marriage. Any form of ‘Do me I do u’ must be avoided at such times, until u resolve d issues.
“Traditionally, Spiritually, Morally, Romantically, and otherwise, sleeping wit another man’s wife is a TUFIAKWA that carries generational curses. Mothers, pls tell ur sons. As for d ladies, pls if d marriage Taya u, after u don try all ur best, pls leave d marriage, doing asiawo inside marriage is a sacrilege,” she added.
Her comments have since sparked conversations online, with social media users debating her views on marriage communication, fidelity, and the boundaries of emotional withdrawal in relationships, especially in light of the ongoing public discourse surrounding Frank and Sandra Edoho’s separation.
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