“Energy For Energy” —Zics Aloma Breaks Silence On Fallout With Long-Absent Friend Over ₦2 Million Request

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Nigerian comedian and digital creator Zics Aloma has stirred conversation online after sharing details of a tense encounter with a former friend who resurfaced unexpectedly with a significant financial demand.

Taking to his platform, the entertainer narrated how someone he had not been in contact with for over two years suddenly reached out not to reconnect or check in but to request ₦2 million to settle rent obligations. The abrupt nature of the appeal, combined with the long period of silence between them, left him taken aback.

Zics Aloma explained that he declined the request, stating clearly that he did not have the money to give. What followed, however, was an unpleasant exchange that quickly escalated. According to him, the individual reacted angrily, resorted to insults, and ultimately blocked him after the refusal.

He recounted the situation in his own words:

“One of my old friend that I haven’t spoken to for over two years asked me to give him 2 million to complete his house rent and I told him that I don’t have; he insulted me and blocked me."

Beyond the immediate disagreement, the comedian also reflected on what he described as an imbalance in the relationship over time. He spoke about how he has consistently made efforts to celebrate friends during their special moments, often going the extra mile with thoughtful gifts. In contrast, he noted that his own celebrations have not received the same level of attention.

Expressing this sentiment, he said:

“You have not spoken to me for the past two years and you’re suddenly billing me. My last birthday I only got one gift from my assistant, whereas I give my friends cake, perfume and wig for their birthday. This year, energy for energy.”

The phrase “energy for energy” has since resonated across social media, with many interpreting it as a declaration of a new personal approach one where effort, care, and generosity are matched rather than given unconditionally.

Online reactions have been varied. While some users sided with the comedian, arguing that relationships should not be reduced to sudden financial expectations, others used the moment to discuss the pressures people face and the different ways individuals seek help. Still, a large portion of the conversation has revolved around boundaries when to give, when to step back, and how to handle connections that appear only in times of need.

The situation has sparked broader discussions about friendship in the age of social media, where access is easier but consistency can be lacking. For many observers, the incident reflects a familiar experience: reconnecting with someone from the past only to be met with requests rather than genuine engagement.

As the conversation continues to gain traction, Zics Aloma’s remarks have added to ongoing debates about loyalty, expectations, and the importance of mutual effort in maintaining relationships.

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