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Dr. Eucharia Anunobi has opened up about the heartbreaking journey of raising her son, who battled sickle cell disease from infancy until his untimely death. Her story also highlights the emotional toll of spousal abandonment and the devastating consequences of medical error.
"Before I got married to Charles, my ex-husband, we discovered we were both AS. I wanted to end the relationship but he convinced me that he would be there for me," Dr. Anunobi said.
The couple married and had a son, but tragedy struck early. "Just before he clocked one, he fell ill and the doctor said he was SS, that was when the battle of my life started. Charles turned against his own son," she revealed.
Dr. Anunobi became the primary caregiver and provider. "I was the one paying the rent and all the bills in the house but I still held on to the marriage. I had two maids," she recalled. She described how her husband consistently abandoned their son during medical crises. "Whenever I went out and our son had a crisis, Charles would just abandon him. I spent millions on hospital bills, Charles never dropped N1."
The situation reached a breaking point when her son was four. "On November 26, 2006, I went to work and my son was 4 years old. Charles’ cousin, Nonye was living with us then and she called me that my husband had moved out of the house, he said he couldn’t deal with a child that was SS."
Despite the challenges, Dr. Anunobi dedicated herself to her son’s care. "For two years, I never removed his pictures and clothes. Since he left, he never called to check on his son. I did everything to save my son." She sought advanced treatment abroad but returned home after learning the procedure was too risky. "I traveled to Ireland, I wanted to do bone marrow transplant for him but the doctor said he could become a vegetable and moreover he needed a sibling so I went back to Nigeria and started making research on how to take care of a child with sickle cell."
Her careful management kept her son healthy through much of his childhood. "I spent millions on him, he never went outside after 5pm, he never drank pure water. From 7 years to 14, he never had a crisis."
However, at 14, he experienced complications. "When he was 14, I saw that his foot was swollen. I took him to the hospital and the doctor said he had a water retention and he needed surgery or they would give him some meds and injection for 21 days. I made sure he never missed his injection. After 21 days, the thing disappeared."
At 16, a routine checkup led to a fatal medical error. "When he was 16 years, I took him for his regular checkup and the doctor asked if he ever did a blood transfusion and I said yes, when he was 3. So the doctor advised he should get a blood transfusion. He instructed his student doctor to do the blood transfusion but he did blood extraction. He removed 3 pints of his blood. My son turned yellow and had jaundice. He was rushed to The ICU and he passed away on Aug 22, 2017," Dr. Anunobi recounted.
Dr. Eucharia Anunobi’s story is a powerful reminder of the resilience of a parent’s love, the heartbreak of spousal abandonment, and the critical importance of medical care in managing life-threatening conditions.
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