"A Man That Eats Must Know How To Wash Plate" – Teniola Aladese Calls For Equality In Domestic Work

 

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Nollywood actress Teniola Aladese has once again ignited conversation around gender expectations and household responsibilities, challenging long‑standing norms that place the burden of domestic chores primarily on women. 

Her recent remarks on a popular podcast have drawn attention from fans, social commentators, and advocates for gender equality across Nigeria and beyond.

In a candid discussion about modern relationships and everyday life, Aladese raised pointed questions about why traditional stereotypes still influence how household tasks are divided. 

She asked, “Why can’t a man wash the dishes? Why do we continue to uphold these gender stereotypes?” Her words underscore a growing frustration among women who juggle professional careers alongside home duties. Aladese continued: “Women cook, clean, wash plates, while men just focus on work. But women also work. We hustle just like them.”

Her critique highlights that despite significant progress toward gender equality in the workplace and society, many domestic expectations remain rooted in outdated beliefs. She described the emotional and physical toll this imbalance takes on women:

 “Why is it that as soon as we get home, it’s the woman who has to do everything  cook, clean, wash… it’s exhausting!”

Aladese also reflected on generational shifts, pointing out that what might have been accepted in the past should not dictate present‑day roles.

 “Our mothers may have handled it, but things are different now. Both men and women work. So why can’t men pitch in with chores?” 

she questioned, emphasizing that modern partnerships require a fairer distribution of responsibilities.

She directly confronted the notion that helping with housework somehow diminishes masculinity, stating, “It’s not about being less of a man; it’s about partnership. These stereotypes need to stop.” 

By reframing domestic help as a shared duty rather than a gendered burden, Aladese’s comments have fueled renewed discussions about equality, respect, and teamwork in relationships.

Closing her remarks with a powerful call to action, she said, “Women are tired. We work too. Let’s share the load.” Her voice has resonated with many who believe that home life should reflect the same fairness and cooperation expected in other facets of modern life.

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“Why can’t a Man wash plate? Why do we keep perpetuating these gender stereotypes,a Woman will cook,wash plate and the Man will just work but women also work”

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