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Nigerian actress Nkechi Blessing has sparked conversation once again, this time sharing her frustrations with men she describes as “unintentional” and incapable of using common sense in relationships.
Speaking in a candid video, Nkechi recounted a recent experience with a man she had been talking to in the UK, highlighting her disappointment with his lack of initiative.
According to the actress, she was preparing to step out to buy a shower mask when someone hit her car, causing one of her tires to burst.
She explained that she had already intended to replace both back tires, so she was preoccupied with managing the situation.
Despite updating the man about her accident, his response was minimal—offering only a generic “sorry, hope you’re not hurt” without asking how he could help or offering any practical assistance.
Nkechi expressed that this lack of concern was a recurring pattern with men she encounters. She said, “If a guy can’t even do the bare minimum, why do I need him in my life? I want to be treated right, like a princess. I don’t want someone who cannot show he’s capable or responsible.”
She stressed that while she is fully capable of taking care of herself, it is about the principle of thoughtfulness and attentiveness in a partner, not financial dependency.
The actress also addressed a subsequent interaction with the same man, who, during a discussion about her work commitments in Abuja, offered very little consideration, suggesting she book a hotel herself and that he would only meet her later.
Nkechi described this as a clear example of the lack of initiative she refuses to tolerate. She emphasized that her interactions with men are part of “testing the waters” as she evaluates potential partners, noting that she is not rushing into a relationship but is instead focused on her work while remaining selective about who she allows into her life.
In a follow-up video, Nkechi clarified her intentions and addressed critics who misunderstood her message. She explained that her point is not about money or material dependence.
“I can buy myself 100 tires if I want,” she said, emphasizing that her frustration lies with men who cannot use common sense or act responsibly when needed.
She criticized online commenters who accused her of being a “pick-me girl” or expecting men to provide for her, reiterating that she has always been self-sufficient and capable of managing her own affairs.
Nkechi Blessing’s remarks reflect a growing conversation among women in Nigeria about standards, respect, and accountability
in relationships. By sharing her personal experiences, she continues to advocate for self-respect and discernment, sending a clear message that thoughtfulness, initiative, and reliability are non-negotiable qualities in a partner.
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