“To Truly Love The Mother Of Your Children, Stop Trying To Revive The Girl She Once Was,” Mary Njoku Counsels Men

 

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Nollywood actress and filmmaker Mary Remmy Njoku has shared insightful advice for men on supporting their partners during postpartum, emphasizing the need to understand and cherish the changes women undergo after childbirth.

On her Instagram page, Njoku explained that postpartum depression is more than just emotional stress—it is “mourning the death of the girl you once were, and learning to embrace the birth of the woman you are becoming.” Her message highlights the profound transformation that comes with motherhood and encourages men to view it with empathy and appreciation.

According to Njoku, “Motherhood is as real as it gets. So, to truly love the mother of your children, stop trying to revive the girl she once was. She is gone. Instead, get to know the woman she has become.” She urges men to focus on building a stronger connection with the woman their partner has grown into, rather than holding on to who she was before motherhood.

Njoku also encouraged men to look at the positive side of this transformation, noting, “So, my dear men, look at the bright side: you get to love ‘different’ women, at different stages of your marriage or relationship. Brothers! Nature has given variety all along. Enjoy!!” Her words are a reminder that marriage and relationships evolve, and that embracing change can strengthen emotional bonds.

Her post resonates widely because it addresses a topic that is often overlooked—how men can actively support women during postpartum challenges. By acknowledging the mental and emotional shifts that accompany motherhood, Njoku’s counsel promotes healthier relationships, mutual respect, and deeper understanding between partners.

This perspective from a respected Nollywood star like Mary Remmy Njoku not only sheds light on postpartum struggles but also empowers men to become more attentive, compassionate, and loving partners.

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