Because no man is an island of knowledge, we all sometimes have to depend on the experience and wisdom of others to navigate life, love and of course, relationships and marriages.
Over time, therefore, it has become a thing for some certain opinions and character traits to become widely acceptable to the point of being undebatable. The acceptance of communication, honesty, and fidelity among several others is now pretty much unquestioned.
But here's the thing about humans and choices; we all have a mind and our individuality springs from there. It is where opinions are formed and characters are concretised so it is not unusual for people to have opinions that do not conform to mainstream ideas.
And that's just fine. That an opinion is unpopular does not make it invalid. When it comes to relationships, here are some interesting but unpopular opinions that you may find really interesting in your relationship.
1. It's OK to not have an instant chemistry in your relationship
Ty’Keria Dawkins [@__tykeria16] continues this line of thought in other tweets when she says:
"I believe this is unpopular [because] we women are on this new wave where we are hyper-vigilant about our hearts & who we let in (which is cool), so the minute we feel like someone isn’t what we think they should be we with this person.
"Teach them how you specifically want to be loved so that they feel open to teaching you. Also remember, not every girl before you may have required him to step a certain way, so introduce him to a queen (growth, patience, love, & happiness )may feel like we’re settling. When in all actuality you have to grow."
2. Don't use your presence to choke an affection that's just budding
A healthy adult relationship, yall might not see each every day. We are grown and working. But if he/she has expressed intreat in you, no need to get crazy and think the worst ... in their free tome they will try to be with you or contact you..
3. Talking about what you don't like is as important as talking about what you like
its not supposed to be easy. you & ur partner both have to learn how to grow as people TOGETHER, & that means recognizing your own toxicity.
@alexabri2: Me and my bf just made eachother a list of things we don’t like that we do, and talked about how we can fix it
4. Love is not a feeling, it's a choice
Unpopular opinion: love is a choice, not a feeling. You are never always pleased with the state of your relationship. Love is something that comes and goes and, most importantly, is renewed if that person is truly, "the one."
5. It's OK to space each other
The time and energy you’ve put into something isn’t worth your well being. If a relationship is breaking you, you need to break it off.
6. Moving 'too fast' isn't a bad idea
Moving fast shouldn’t be so taboo. Our grandparents got married within 1year of meeting. I shouldn’t have to lie about how long I’ve known my fiancé to avoid the judgement.
7. Don't invest 'all your energy' into your relationship
If you put your everything into only 1 person then it’s nearly impossible to put any effort into yourself or into your friendships, so you gotta balance how much time you invest in each person, including yourself
8. Love shouldn't always translate into a relationship
You can love someone and still not date them. If something feels like it needs to be forced, sometimes it’s healthier to walk away. It can be the hardest thing to do, but when both people are miserable it’s necessary.
9. It's OK to sometimes to just go with the flow
Not every relationship has to work towards marriage. It’s ok to just have fun and enjoy each other.
10. PDA is very very beautiful
PDA isnt gross. Its beautiful to see people in love and happy with each other. Yall trip over people kissing in public but then go home and pull up that incognito mode
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