Don’t Waste Effort On In-Laws That Don’t Like You — Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde Speaks Out

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Nollywood superstar Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde recently spoke candidly on Morayo’s podcast about one of the most challenging aspects of marriage  dealing with in-laws who may not immediately accept you. 

Addressing young couples and newlyweds, Omotola offered practical and hard-hitting advice on navigating this delicate family dynamic.

“If the family you are marrying into doesn't like you, try everything you possibly can to make them understand and like you. But there are some parents that won't just give in no matter what you do,”

 Omotola said. Her words resonated deeply, highlighting a reality that many couples quietly face but rarely discuss publicly.

She continued to emphasize that marriage is already a challenging institution, and lack of support from the very start can make the journey even more difficult.

 “My advice: it’s not worth it. Marriage in itself is already an institution where you’re going to face a lot. It’s a lifetime journey; every step you’re going to need support, and if these people are not going to support you from the beginning, you’re going to have a very rough journey,” she explained.

Omotola’s message is clear: while it is natural to seek approval from your spouse’s family, prioritizing your marriage and focusing on your spouse is far more important than trying to win over everyone.

 Her reflections serve as a reality check for young couples navigating the complex terrain of family expectations, reminding them that the success of a marriage depends not only on love but also on the support system that surrounds it.

Fans and followers have praised Omotola for her honesty and wisdom, noting that her advice provides both guidance and reassurance for couples facing family challenges.

With her trademark candor, she delivers a message that is both relatable and empowering: protect your marriage, nurture your bond, and don’t waste energy on those who refuse to support you.

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