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Toxic Love or Family Business? A Review of ‘Her Insecurities’

Toxic Love or Family Business? A Review of ‘Her Insecurities’


Bimbo Ademoye Shines in a Gripping Tale of Ego, Betrayal, and the "Submission" Trap!



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Rating: ............  (3/5 Stars)


Nollywood has a long-standing fascination with the "Arrogant Billionaire" trope. From the early 2000s classics to the glossy Netflix-era spectacles, we’ve seen countless men in sharp suits treat women like accessories. In NollyRok Studios’ latest offering, Her Insecurities, we are thrust back into this familiar territory, but with a modern, high-stakes twist involving corporate mergers and the crushing weight of family expectations.


Starring the ever-captivating Bimbo Ademoye and the stoic John Ekanem, the film attempts to navigate the murky waters of emotional abuse, the "submission" debate that sets Nigerian Twitter (X) ablaze weekly, and the ultimate price of ego. As a veteran of this industry, I’ve seen this story told a thousand times, but Her Insecurities manages to hold the mirror up to our society in a way that is both frustrating and deeply recognizable.


Cinematography: Glossy Frames vs. Static Storytelling

Visually, Her Insecurities sits comfortably in the "New Nollywood" aesthetic. The camera work is clean, utilizing high-definition sensors that capture the opulence of Lagos corporate life. We see a heavy reliance on mid-range shots and close-ups during the heated debates between Liam and Barbara, which effectively captures the micro-expressions of Bimbo Ademoye’s frustration.


However, the film often falls into the "TV-style" trap. Many scenes are shot in a standard shot-reverse-shot format that feels a bit repetitive by the 45-minute mark. There is a missed opportunity for more cinematic wide shots to establish the "loneliness" of the wealth these characters inhabit. The lighting is generally consistent, though some interior office scenes feel a bit "flat," lacking the shadow-play that could have emphasized Liam’s dark, controlling nature. The color grading leans toward a warm, saturated palette—typical for NollyRok productions—which gives the film a polished, "premium" feel even when the narrative stutters.


Sound Design & The Rhythm of Lagos

One of the most significant improvements in recent Nollywood is dialogue audibility, and Her Insecurities mostly succeeds here. Liam’s booming, authoritative voice is crisp, and the microphone quality doesn’t falter even during the shouting matches.


The score, however, is a bit "on the nose." When Liam is being particularly toxic, the music swells with heavy, ominous tones that feel like they are telling the audience how to feel rather than letting the acting do the work. I would have appreciated more use of silence. In a culture as loud as ours, silence in a film can be a powerful tool to show emotional vacuum. That said, the integration of contemporary Afro-fusion tracks during transition scenes keeps the energy high and grounds the film in 2026 Lagos.


Costume and Production Design: Dressing the Part

The wardrobe department deserves a raise. Liam’s suits are tailored to perfection, communicating a man who demands order in every fabric of his life. Barbara’s outfits strike a balance between "Corporate Queen" and "Vulnerable Fianceé"—her clothing often acts as a suit of armor.


The production design effectively uses location to tell the story of class. Samantha’s initial surroundings compared to the "glass and steel" world of Liam’s office immediately establishes the power imbalance. When Liam rents an apartment for Samantha, the transition from her modest life to a sterile, modern flat visually represents her becoming a "kept woman"—a bird in a gilded cage.


The Narrative Arc: A Study in Control

The story kicks off with a bang—literally, the "heat" of an argument. We are immediately introduced to Liam’s core philosophy: "I can't be with a woman that doesn't submit to me". This isn't just a plot point; it’s the thesis of the film.


The pacing in the first act is brisk. We see the pressure Barbara is under from her mother, who represents the old guard of Nigerian parents who believe business deals are more important than emotional compatibility. "Forget his character and build this relationship... we cannot afford to lose the business deal," her mother says. This is a heartbreakingly accurate reflection of some high-society Nigerian marriages.


The second act introduces Samantha, and this is where the plot logic gets a bit "Nollywood-esque." Liam’s decision to hire a woman he is clearly attracted to, who is also in desperate debt, is a classic trope. The film explores the "Sex-for-Jobs" culture in corporate Nigeria with a heavy hand. Liam’s "I am God, I am Jesus Christ, I am Muhammad" speech in the office is peak villainy, showing a man whose ego has completely detached from reality.


Performance Analysis: Bimbo Ademoye Carries the Torch

Bimbo Ademoye (Barbara): As expected, Bimbo is the soul of this film. She plays the "scorned but resilient" woman with a nuance that prevents the character from being a caricature. Her ability to switch from Pidgin to "Queen’s English" feels authentic to the Lagos "Big Girl" experience.


John Ekanem (Liam): John plays Liam with a cold, almost robotic rigidity. While this works for the character’s "controlling" nature, there are moments where I wanted to see more of the "why" behind his brokenness. Why is he so obsessed with loyalty when he has none himself?


The Supporting Cast: The character of Teddy (the childhood friend) provides a much-needed breath of fresh air. His chemistry with Samantha (played with a convincing mix of desperation and hope) is the only "green flag" in a sea of red.


Plot Logic & Cultural Nuances

There are a few "head-scratcher" moments. Barbara’s decision to confront Samantha directly rather than dealing with her man is a tired trope. However, the film subverts this by having Samantha eventually stand her ground.


The "Pregnancy Trope" is also used as a major catalyst. In many Nollywood films, a pregnancy is a "tie" that binds a woman to a man forever. Her Insecurities takes a darker turn. Liam’s rejection of the child and Samantha’s subsequent loss of the pregnancy is heavy stuff. It moves the film from a standard romance into a tragedy about the disposability of women in the eyes of powerful men.


Thematic Depth: What is the Film Really Saying?

At its heart, Her Insecurities is a critique of the "Alpha Male" culture that has seen a resurgence in digital spaces. Liam represents the extreme end of this—the belief that money buys total ownership of a partner’s soul.


It also touches on the "Transactional Nature of Love" in modern Nigeria. From the family business merger to Samantha’s debt, every relationship in the film starts as a transaction. It is only when Teddy enters that we see love as a gift rather than a trade.


The Verdict: Is It Worth Your Data?

Her Insecurities is a frustrating watch, but intentionally so. You will scream at your screen. You will want to shake Barbara and tell her to run. You will want to see Liam lose everything. In that regard, the film succeeds—it evokes strong emotion.


While it suffers from some typical Nollywood pacing issues—the middle section drags as we watch Liam move between both women—the payoff in the final act is satisfying. Seeing Samantha choose her dignity over Liam’s millions is the "girl power" moment the film earns.


Who should watch this?


Fans of intense romantic dramas.


Anyone who loves a good "redemption and rejection" story.


Bimbo Ademoye completists (she really is that good).


The film ends on a note of destiny. It suggests that while "Insecurities" can drive us into the arms of the wrong people, our "Destiny" (represented by Teddy) is always waiting if we have the courage to walk away from toxic tables.

 



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