“Don’t Try to Console Me, I Will Break Down” – Rotimi Salami on Losing Allwell Ademola

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Nollywood actor Rotimi Salami has shared a deeply personal message reflecting his grief following the death of his colleague and close friend, Allwell Ademola. Taking to Instagram, Salami described the profound void left by Ademola’s passing and admitted that even days after the loss, he is struggling to come to terms with it.

In an emotional post, Salami revealed that 72 hours of constant tears have not lessened his sorrow, stating that he still cannot accept the reality of losing Ademola. He described her affectionately as his “Shuga boo,” expressing just how central she was to his life both personally and professionally.

“To everyone who has genuinely reached out to me with love and concern for my state of mind and well-being through countless calls, messages, and voice notes, I see them all. I truly do. I’m just too weak right now to read, listen, respond, or even find the words to express how I really feel,” Salami wrote.

Despite the overwhelming sadness, the actor emphasized his effort to remain strong for those around him, particularly his children, family, and fans who have supported him through the difficult days. He acknowledged that while he struggles internally, he understands the need to be a source of strength for others who are mourning alongside him.

“All is not well at the moment. But for the sake of our family, friends, and the fans who have shown up in prayers, posts, calls, and overwhelming love – and most especially for my children, who will draw strength from me as we learn to move on without our Shuga Boo, our Ibiayo, our Eniobanke, our Allwell Ademola, I promise to stand strong,” Salami added.

He also requested understanding from those around him, explaining that even a simple attempt at consolation could trigger an emotional breakdown. The actor’s honesty highlights just how difficult it is to navigate the sudden loss of someone so close.

“Please, when you see me, don’t try to console me because I will break down. I still can’t say farewell. Shuga boo,” he wrote, underscoring the depth of his grief and the enduring impact Ademola had on his life.

Salami’s tribute is a heartfelt reminder of the strong bonds that exist behind the scenes in Nollywood. Beyond their work together, Ademola’s influence and presence clearly left a lasting mark on those who knew her personally. The actor’s post resonates not only with fans of the late actress but also with anyone who has experienced the sudden loss of a loved one.

The actor’s words also serve as a call to recognize the importance of emotional support in times of grief. Salami’s candid reflections remind followers that mourning is a personal process, and sometimes strength is drawn quietly, especially when one has the responsibility of supporting family members and others who are also hurting.

Through his post, Salami has paid tribute to Allwell Ademola’s life, honoring her memory while simultaneously navigating the profound pain of her absence. His message stands as both a public expression of grief and a private commitment to keep moving forward in her honor.

This emotional confession showcases the depth of the human experience behind celebrity life, proving that even stars face moments of vulnerability when confronted with unexpected loss.

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