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Nigerian media personality and entrepreneur, Toke Makinwa, has taken to social media to encourage women not to succumb to societal pressures surrounding marriage and motherhood.
In an Instagram post on September 10, 2025, Toke stressed the importance of owning one’s narrative, expressing gratitude for her blessings, including her newborn child, while addressing the constant scrutiny women face.
In her post, Toke highlighted the pervasive nature of societal judgment, particularly aimed at women who have not yet married or had children. She shared screenshots of negative comments she has received over the years, emphasizing that criticism often persists regardless of a woman’s career achievements.
“I’m not one to even acknowledge negativity. I’ve built a strong brand off the stones that have constantly been thrown at me over the years.
One thing about God, he loves the people you judge so much. I am only sharing this for anyone out there dealing with contention, delay, shame, and all the crazy limitations life can sometimes throw your way,” Toke wrote.
She pointed out that marriage and motherhood have often become societal yardsticks for measuring fulfillment, noting that women who have yet to achieve these milestones are unfairly scrutinized.
Toke used her personal experience to inspire others, encouraging women to trust in God’s timing and not settle under societal pressure.
“Funny how no matter how much you rise career-wise as a woman, society still glorifies the things that haven’t happened for you yet. Marriage has become some sort of a yardstick to fulfilment, and if you don’t have a child yet,” she added.
Toke went further to advise women feeling the pressure of running out of time, emphasizing patience and self-worth.
“Thank you, Jesus, this one ended in praise. You were not late; you only wanted my heart posture to be right. And I’m thankful for the community of women you’ve given me in this season.
I know there are ladies who feel they are running out of time; society wants you to believe that you have expired, you might even start to believe it, but you are wrong.
I am thankful I did not settle, I’m thankful I got to be a mum when I am ready. I am thankful I rejected all these labels, and I am grateful it happened not when I wanted it but when God’s timing was right. It is perfect!”
Through her message, Toke Makinwa reinforced the importance of women prioritizing their personal growth, mental well-being, and readiness over societal expectations. She urged women to embrace their journey, reminding them that external pressures should never dictate the timing of their life milestones.
Toke’s candid reflections have sparked conversations on social media, with many applauding her honesty and encouragement for women to rise above societal judgments. Her post serves as a powerful reminder that fulfillment is personal and timing is key.
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