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Nigerian singer and songwriter Simi has revealed that she’s never experienced heartbreak, attributing it to her instinctive response to walk away from anything that threatens her emotional well-being.
In a candid conversation with media personality VJ Adams, the award-winning artist said while she has felt emotional pain in the past, she cannot recall ever going through heartbreak.
“I don’t think I’ve ever been heartbroken, but I’ve been hurt before. I don’t have any memory of being heartbroken, but I’ve probably broken someone’s heart though,” Simi admitted.
She explained that her approach to relationships—romantic or otherwise—is shaped by a strong commitment to self-preservation and mental health. According to her, once she senses that a situation is emotionally unhealthy, she steps away.
“I’m the type of person who used to say that I never wanted someone to date me so that I don’t feel bad or because they pity me. Let me feel bad, then I’d get over it,” she said. “It’s the same way I used to operate; if I felt like something wasn’t working, I’d walk away from it.”
Simi also noted that this mindset extends beyond romantic relationships. Whether with friends or others in her life, she prioritises peace and emotional safety.
“This isn’t even only for relationships. If I have friends that make me feel unsafe, I’m ready to cut it off because I have anxiety,” she said.
She concluded by acknowledging that while pain is inevitable when you care about others, setting boundaries has helped her avoid deep heartbreak.
“This is why I say I don’t remember ever being heartbroken before but I’ve been hurt. When you love people there’s always the capacity for them to hurt you.”
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