When a guy suddenly goes cold on you is usually not even about you!
Too many times, women have complained about men blowing hot one day and going cold turkey the next.
As a woman faced with this kind of indifference in place of the excitement and affection a man used to show in her before, the truth you need to know is that that half the time, it’s not something you did.
It’s all on him, not you.
This is so because, some men date for sport. In other words, they just do this for fun. They do it out of boredom. Pursuing a woman with words and efforts, wooing her, showing her interest and doing all those things that count as meaningful effort… they just do it for the fun of it.
When they get tired of the thrill [usually, after getting your complete attention and sometimes, sex], they pull out [no pun intended].
The interest either reduces till it vanishes or they ghost on you completely.
So if you are sure that it was not something you did, and he is not even giving you an opportunity to know why he suddenly stopped showing interest, then there’s really nothing you could possibly do and it’s about time you stopped bothering yourself about him and let him go.
If there’s any other lesson to learn here, it is that time takes care of many things. When a guy begins to show interest in you, make sure to give it a reasonable amount of time before committing to too much or getting too deeply involved.
You really don’t want to be moved by something that would later turn out to be a false dawn.
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